Every so often I will do this little thing on a place called Reddit where random men will send me messages and I will tell them different painful things to do to themselves and then will ultimately give them directions on when and how to orgasm.
A little bit more infrequently I will do this type of thing in real life.
Regardless, my favorite part is always when they say, "Thank you." "Thank you, Mistress, for the pain. Thank you, Mistress, for allowing me to do this." In the end of everything, I'm just a pleasure slut. :) It makes me insanely happy to make others happy - discuss all you want about the differences between a "top" or a "bottom," I just want the "thank you."